sourcedumal:

punwhileyoustillcan:

davejaded:

spacethefinalfuck:

lohanofficial:

this is how americans celebrate 4th of july in london 

THATS NOT EVEN REAL TEA YOU UNGRATEFUL YANK
-sound of bumbling angry british persons in the distance-

Like you would know what real tea is, you stole it from the Asians




OOP!

sourcedumal:

punwhileyoustillcan:

davejaded:

spacethefinalfuck:

lohanofficial:

this is how americans celebrate 4th of july in london 

THATS NOT EVEN REAL TEA YOU UNGRATEFUL YANK

-sound of bumbling angry british persons in the distance-

Like you would know what real tea is, you stole it from the Asians

OOP!

tagged: +food  +open water  +DAMN 
Here is a resource post for trans women!
tagged: +i'm dfab 
The Tucking Masterpost (Please signal boost!)(TW for discussion and some images of genitals)

anarcholesbianism:

Hi! Are you a CAMAB transfeminine person who’s sick of only ever seeing resources for CAFAB trans people on your dash? Are you just coming out to yourself and struggling with Peak Dysphoria? Are you a CAFAB trans person who wants to support the people above? Then here’s a post for you!

This is a post about tucking!

Wait Erika, what the fuck is a tuck?

Glad you asked! For those who don’t know, tucking is a technique for achieving a flat groin area. It’s a time-honored tool of CAMAB trans feminine people but, unfortunately, the tradition doesn’t seem to have been communicated very effectively to the current generation. 

So what’s the point of tucking?

Tucking has lots of awesome benefits! These include:

  • Being able to wear pants & shorts marketed to women more comfortably
  • Seeing yourself with a flat front often reduces dysphoria (it did for me!)
  • Referring to the previous bullet, it is one of the easiest ways to lessen your dysphoria when you’re still closeted, since you can wear a tuck under your normal pants/shorts and no one has to know
  • It can help us reduce some of the risk of being outed in public

Oh neat. How do I tuck?

The basics of tucking goes like this:

  • Push the testicles up into the inguinal canals
  • Pull the rest of the junk between the legs
  • Secure the arrangement with very tight underwear (or some other method)

Wait wait wait… What the hell is an inguinal canal?

Alright, so…. this is gonna require some body exploration on your part if you can stomach it. Basically, the inguinal canals are little tunnels in your pelvis above the testicles. If you push your testicles directly up into your body from their resting position, they should slide pretty neatly into the inguinal canals.

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Yeah… this is what the TW was mostly for. Sorry, but the visual is helpful.

Ok…. So how do I secure it all in place?

Ok so first thing’s first: do not use duct tape. A lot of tutorials online (particularly ones for and by drag queens) recommend using duct tape, but that shit hurts and it’s super unnecessary!

Instead you need two things:

  1. A tight pair of panties (preferably more, so you can do this frequently without wearing the same undies every day)
  2. Control briefs

…. Control briefs?

I know, I know, so many new words tonight! Ever heard Spanx products? They’re mainly marketed to cis women for “tummy control”, but they have another awesome use as well - tucking! Here’s an example at Target.com (you should be able to find them at any store that sells women’s underwear, but if you’re afraid to go buy them in the store that pair is pretty cheap and you can order it online if you’re in the U.S.)

If you get the right size of control briefs (I would recommend buying a size down) they should fit very snugly over your junk. To hold your tuck in place, simply hold it between your legs, pull up your undies all the way, and pull the control briefs over them. Assuming you’ve pulled everything up as much as possible and kept everything tucked between your legs correctly, you should now have a snug and smooth tuck! Congrats!!!!!!

But wait, I can’t get that stuff! What do I do???????

Hey, that’s ok! Couple of ideas here:

  • Get a pair of tights (possibly old ones from a friend) and cut off everything but the stretchy part at the top. Congrats! Those are basically control briefs (albeit kinda messy ones)
  • Contact me and I’ll try to get you a pair of those control briefs from Target (if you live outside the US im sure we can find another website)

Ok…. So is there anything I should worry about with the tuck?

Unfortunately, yeah - mainly discomfort. Here’s a few ways discomfort occurs when tucking and how to avoid it:

  • Tucking with the inguinal canals can be painful at first. I spent weeks practicing using them before ever getting my first tucking materials. If the pain is too unbearable for you, dom-the-destitute suggests just tucking everything back and continuing from there.
  • After a few hours of tucking (varies depending on how active you are) things are probably gonna start to feel a little out of place. Part of the prevention here is practicing lots to get as tight a tuck as possible. Other than that, it’s something you’ll have to get kind of used to dealing with - I usually excuse myself to the bathroom when a tuck becomes too uncomfortable and fix it in the stall.
  • After even more hours you’re going to feel a pretty general aching. Much as people who bind shouldn’t do that for too long, you shouldn’t tuck for too long at once. Usually 4-8 hours (again, depending upon activity level as well as experience) is gonna be all you can stand before getting some longer lasting aching. I don’t know if there’s any long-term harm that can occur from tucking too long, but it’s best if you’re not the first to find out.
  • Generally I find that more & longer pubic hair can cause discomfort and generally make your tuck less effective. Definitely look into shaving down there, or at least trimming up a little bit if you don’t already (I’m not going to go into details about pubic shaving but send me a message if you need help in that department).

Congrats! You now know how to tuck! Go get those cute white capris you saw at Macy’s the other day and ROCK that shit!

If you have any questions or need additional help, feel free to send me an ask. If you have any additional suggestions to add to this post, please go ahead and reblog it with comment or send me a message about it!

Wikihow also has a good article on the topic to check out for some more visuals! (Make sure to skip to the “Tuck without Tape” section)

Please, make this post as popular as possible. CAFAB trans folks all have so much info about binding, but so many CAMAB trans feminine folk don’t know about tucking and could use the info!

graysea:


I wish I was a princess. Then I wouldn’t have to go to school.

Wanted to draw Usagi in a pretty dress whoops.

graysea:

I wish I was a princess. Then I wouldn’t have to go to school.

Wanted to draw Usagi in a pretty dress whoops.

tagged: +sm  +the colors are ace 
A SHOUTOUT TO ALL NON-BINARY HEBREW SPEAKERS

dimsumdaniel:

I opened a secret Facebook group dedicated to finding a third pronoun in Hebrew that will serve people who don’t feel comfortable with man and/or woman pronouns. This task is extra hard in hebrew because all verbs are either in man or woman form so I want as many hebrew speakers who could use this (either combined with other pronouns or on its own) to contact me and join this group

PLEASE REBLOG THIS EVEN IF YOU DON’T SPEAK HEBREW OR ARE NOT NON-BINARY SO IT COULD GET TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE EVENTUALLY.
thank you very much

Anonymous asked: you dont tag trigger warnings?

uoa:

i always get shit when i talk about this but the reason i dont tag tw is bc

a) the term ‘trigger’ is meant to refer 2 those with PTSD those w severe anxiety and/or survivors of various forms of abuse it indicates an extreme reaction 2 certain stimulus like a panic attack/flashback/blackout caused by ur brain being unable to handle the resurgence of something horrific that happened to u 

b) with that being said, i dont post triggering content. i havent talked about serious triggering shit on this blog for a long time in fact i think the last time i tagged smth was when i reblogged this youtube video about domestic abuse probs like 6 months ago nowadays i just reblog pretty pictures and make fun of anons 

c) i get a thousand messages everyday from ppl suggesting i should tag shit like ‘spiders, ‘blood’, ‘feet’, ‘ghosts’, etc and it seriously pisses me off that u guys really believe ‘triggering’ equals ‘it makes me uncomfortable’ im not here to make tumblr a better place for u im not even getting paid man it’s ur responsibility to take care of yourself when it comes to these random ass ‘triggers’ if u cant see a gif of a ghost on ur dash you shouldn’t be online at all

d) in fact, ive come to the conclusion that demanding one of these lame ass trigger warnings it’s just a way 2 identify yourself as even more aware even more solicitous than the person who failed to ~adequately~ provide such a ridiculous warning. when i see ppl tagging ‘tw: spiders’ i cant help but think they are not demonstrating a sensitivity towards a topic but rather they just wanna be ‘seen’ doing so 2 demand that others ‘ought’ to do the same to validate one’s politics. this whole ’trigger’ business is less about protecting ppl from potentially re-traumatizing events and more 2 do with flagging up your right-on credentials even if it means silencing those who have actually gone through actual traumatizing events.

Here’s why you’re a bag of shit

a) People can be triggered without being diagnosed with ptsd and it doesn’t have to result in a flashback or something of that nature for it to be a trigger

b) Just because something doesn’t seem triggering to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t trigger someone else i know it’s a weird concept but people have their own experiences and fears i’ll give you a moment to let that sink it

c) Good job on deciding that people wanting to be comfortable in the only place that they can be where there’s blacklist features and the like are worth more than you taking a second to tag something you’re a great person keep on being so considerate

d) i don’t even know how to respond to this one other than saying that you’re a pretentious ass

i hope this taught you that you’re an asshole and are wrong in many ways about trigger warnings <3

darkpathos:

"You either die a hero or live long enough to become a villain." 

lytharis:

giveaway!!!!!!!! (sorry for bad english)

BASIC INFO

i’ll be donating $100 to your paypal account or in amazon gift card or some similar shopping site you prefer that i can do it with a credit card
it’s going to end August 1st (i know it’s a long time i was excited to do this) (i’ll be able to get my hands in some more money until then)
i’ll be using a random number generator
the winner will have 48 hours to answer my ask, or i’ll pass to next winner (so have your askbox open)
this is for transitioning, clothing, make up, wigs, accessories, breast cups and other stuff that will make you feel more comfortable

RULES AND SOME OTHER INFO

must be dmab/camab/amab etc and trans
all trans women and dmab nonbinary folks are welcome
must reblog this post (you can like it as bookmark but it doesn’t count) (one reblog only please) (no giveaway blogs sorry)
if you are cis or/and dfab or just isn’t participating please tag it as #signal boost when reblogging so i won’t enter you =)
you don’t have to follow anyone just keep being lovely
i guess that’s it!! good luck!!! =D

lytharis:

giveaway!!!!!!!! (sorry for bad english)

BASIC INFO

  • i’ll be donating $100 to your paypal account or in amazon gift card or some similar shopping site you prefer that i can do it with a credit card
  • it’s going to end August 1st (i know it’s a long time i was excited to do this) (i’ll be able to get my hands in some more money until then)
  • i’ll be using a random number generator
  • the winner will have 48 hours to answer my ask, or i’ll pass to next winner (so have your askbox open)
  • this is for transitioning, clothing, make up, wigs, accessories, breast cups and other stuff that will make you feel more comfortable

RULES AND SOME OTHER INFO

  • must be dmab/camab/amab etc and trans
  • all trans women and dmab nonbinary folks are welcome
  • must reblog this post (you can like it as bookmark but it doesn’t count) (one reblog only please) (no giveaway blogs sorry)
  • if you are cis or/and dfab or just isn’t participating please tag it as #signal boost when reblogging so i won’t enter you =)
  • you don’t have to follow anyone just keep being lovely

i guess that’s it!! good luck!!! =D

tagged: +signal boost 

lymphonodge:

undefined-fantastic-silver:

well i’m out on the street. I’m not sleeping tonight unless I can find an open hostel and spend money.

please please please someone help ashley get somewhere to sleep in seattle area

truebluemeandyou:

Taxidermy Felt Piñata Skin Rug from Etsy Seller SomeRabbits. Gif by me using my favorite program - makeagif.com. First seen at Make. For everything piñata including piñata cookies, cakes etc… go here: truebluemeandyou.tumblr.com/tagged/pinata 

"No piñatas were harmed in the production of this rug."

 

truebluemeandyou:

Taxidermy Felt Piñata Skin Rug from Etsy Seller SomeRabbits. Gif by me using my favorite program - makeagif.com. First seen at Make. For everything piñata including piñata cookies, cakes etc… go here: truebluemeandyou.tumblr.com/tagged/pinata 

"No piñatas were harmed in the production of this rug."

 

tagged: +colors  +gif  +omg omg 
My Friend’s Wheelchair Was Stolen Today

trickiwoo:

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My friend had his wheelchair stolen today. 

You can read his story here.

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His friends have started a fundraiser to help him raise the money to get a new chair.  You can help by donating here.  Every little bit helps!  If you can’t afford a donation at this time, you can help by spreading the word and reblogging!  Thank you!

tagged: +eyes 

eternalsailor2chainz:

abelsgirl28:

eternalsailor2chainz:

abelsgirl28:

eternalsailor2chainz:

eternalsailor2chainz:

MY BOSS SAID SOMETHING ABOUT ANAL SEX AND I CORRECTED HIM AND NOW ALL MY COWORKERS THINK IM A SEX GOD I WANNA DIE

#im a sex god #hit me up

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Lmfaooo

#you just jealous

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of what???

Damn why are you so serious?

homemade-awesome

come look at this train wreck

They really don’t get what “i don’t want people from irl talking to me because you’re assholes” means

the-milk-eyed-mender:

petition to destroy “cisphobia” by diffusion by using it to describe literally anything

example: safeway stopped selling oreo birthday cake ice cream, it was so fucking cisphobic

tagged: +food mention